Last week, I had the privilege of being part of a volunteer team that delivered a hugely successful community event. Over the course of the day, we hosted around 4,000 people — families, friends, neighbours, colleagues and strangers — all coming together in celebration, connection and joy.

I don’t mean to make this blog sad or heavy. That’s not my intent. But as I sat listening to eulogies and tributes today, I found myself wondering: What will people say at my funeral?