If you’ve ever felt like you’re running a race that wasn’t built for you — read this.

It ends with four questions that might change how you define success.

Looking for quick fixes to your problems? Sorry, you’ve come to the wrong place. Many times, people want their problems solved. They’re willing to listen to how it can be done. But they’re not necessarily willing to pay — whether that’s with their money, their time, their energy, or even their attention.

A week of juggling, had a few lessons: