This week I attended a Matariki session where one line stopped me:

"One constellation, one sky. Many stories."

I didn't expect those words to land the way they did. But then again, I didn't expect what happened two weeks ago either - when I stood in front of 60 people, mid-introduction and my father's name came out of my mouth differently than it ever had before.

We all say we value integrity. But what happens when it costs you something?

A short story from a football match, a post-game comment that stung more than expected and a reflection on leadership and showing up whole.