#Theweekthatwas @ 26/04/2026

A commemorative week had a few lessons:

  1. Others don't see our intentions, they only see our actions

  2. Disappointment stems from expectations

  3. Distraction is a decision; so is discipline

  4. Most of us don't need new knowledge to be our best, we just need a mirror

  5. Fear of embarrassment is what holds many of us back from being ourselves

  6. If we're embarrassed to be ourselves, we've not spent enough time getting to know ourselves

  7. Some of us have inherited rules which made sense for a different era and may no longer serve us

  8. Staying small serves no one

  9. Confidence doesn't come from knowledge or degrees, it comes from action

  10. There's a difference between using the victim card and holding perpetrators and authorities to a higher standard

  11. Stereotypes create efficiency for the primitive brain to keep us safe - and that's the limit of its value

  12. Reminders like "Lest we forget" and "Never again" seem already to have been forgotten

  13. Sowing division amongst minorities is an age-old tactic that the colonial machine continues to use to this day

  14. Communities and individuals who fall prey to divisive tactics have a way to go to de-colonise their thinking

  15. We control what goes out, not what goes in

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