#Theweekthatwas @ 10/05/2026
Preparation for a loved one's death can never prepare you for their death
He never called it leadership
My father returned to his Maker two days ago and I've since been making lists.
What he didn't teach me. What he did. And what it means for the kind of leader — the kind of man — I'm still trying to become.
This one's personal.
#Theweekthatwas @ 03/05/2026
People hardly take a long hard honest look at themselves unless and until they feel stuck, hit a wall or face a crisis
Two days. Two freedoms. One question.
ANZAC Day. Freedom Day. For me, both land differently than they might for most people reading this.
This week I couldn't separate them. So I didn't try.
A reflection on sacrifice, liberation and the freedom we've inherited but haven't fully used.
#Theweekthatwas @ 26/04/2026
Confidence doesn't come from knowledge or degrees, it comes from action
When help feels like a threat
A simple moment on a waterfront - trying to help an injured seagull - sparked a deeper reflection on human behaviour.
Why do we sometimes resist the very help we need? And why do well-intentioned leaders struggle to have their support received?
A practical reflection on trust, timing and the conditions required for help to land.
Deprioritise people at your peril
When budgets tighten, many organisations cut investment in people first. Training disappears, development stalls and teams are expected to deliver with less.
But what if the very thing being deprioritised is the thing most likely to carry the organisation through?
A reflection on why capability must be invested in intentionally - by organisations, leaders and individuals alike.
#Theweekthatwas @ 05/04/2026
Capturing a community's stories brings multiple canvasses together in simply stunning artistry
Servant Leadership isn’t new - it’s remembered
We talk a lot about “servant leadership.”
But for many of us, it’s not something we learned - it’s something we witnessed. Somewhere along the way, though, service became something we perform… or something we quietly hide from.
This reflection explores the tension between sincerity and recognition - and what real service actually asks of us.
#Theweekthatwas @ 29/03/2026
Getting attention for the work you do is very different from seeking attention for the work you do
#Theweekthatwas @ 22/03/2026
If your eyes are closed when one door closes, be prepared to get knocked in the head by the one that opens
No, it’s not family first
We’ve all heard it. “Family comes first.”
It sounds right. It feels right. But what happens when family and principle collide?
In this reflection, I explore the tension between loyalty and integrity - and why true care isn’t about protecting those closest to us from consequences, but holding them to the same standard as everyone else.
Don’t rush the season you’re in
There are seasons in life we wish we could fast-forward through. Seasons where plans fall apart, progress slows down and we find ourselves asking questions we never expected to ask.
But not every difficult season is empty.
In this reflection, I explore a simple framework I’ve come to recognise when people navigate challenging seasons through the FELT model.
Real talk: Leadership in a world on fire
Leadership is not merely having an opinion. It is the burden of carrying consequence. Here’s why I’m shifting my focus toward building leaders who lead with conscience.
#Theweekthatwas @ 18/01/2026
When we allow ourselves to be governed by the scroll, the notifications and the likes, enslavement is inevitable
#Theweekthatwas @ 11/01/2026
Just as our bodies can surpass the limits set by our minds, our minds can surpass those set by our feelings and beliefs
#Theweekthatwas @ 28/12/2025
True peace is the kind that can be found in noise and turmoil just as easily as it can be found in silence and stillness
Choosing from what matters
We make decisions every day. Some are small. Others quietly shape the course of our lives.
In this reflection, I explore why decision-making isn’t just about having the right information, but about being anchored in what truly matters.
On being human first
Earlier today, a thought crossed my mind - quietly, briefly, but long enough to unsettle me. “Should I hold back from speaking up… because it might affect my business?”
I didn’t like that the thought showed up. And I didn’t ignore it.
What two young people taught me about holding back
Some lessons arrive in unexpected ways. This week, two young people taught me something I didn’t know I needed to learn about perfectionism, contribution and holding back.