I don’t mean to make this blog sad or heavy. That’s not my intent. But as I sat listening to eulogies and tributes today, I found myself wondering: What will people say at my funeral?

It’s not about never struggling. It’s about having the tools and the right support to move through those struggles without staying stuck.

In sharing my journey with others, I’ve noticed that many think “leadership coaching” is only for traditional leaders or those in formal roles of authority. But leadership isn’t a title—it’s a mindset, a confidence to bring your true self forward, and to act with purpose, vision, and courage.

Two months ago, to the day, I stood facing a fork in the metaphorical road. One path was familiar: I’d walked versions of it for over 20 years, achieving reasonable success, growing a suite of skills, and, most importantly, building and nurturing lasting relationships. The other path was less familiar