#Theweekthatwas @ 11/01/2026
Just as our bodies can surpass the limits set by our minds, our minds can surpass those set by our feelings and beliefs
Depth or dopamine: what are you designing your life for?
As a new year begins, many of us find ourselves longing for more clarity, more purpose and more alignment - yet feeling surrounded by noise, distraction and surface-level stimulation.
This reflective piece explores the tension between dopamine and depth, intention and design, and what it truly takes to sustain meaningful growth in our lives, leadership and faith.
#Theweekthatwas @ 04/01/2026
New days, new weeks, new months, new years and still there's a part of us that remains the same
Getting truer, not newer
As the masks fall away, what remains of us? Spending time with my mum as she lives with dementia has offered unexpected lessons about honesty, identity and the futility of trying to reinvent ourselves year after year. With 2026 upon us, this reflection invites a different question: less about becoming “better” and more about becoming truer.
#Theweekthatwas @ 28/12/2025
True peace is the kind that can be found in noise and turmoil just as easily as it can be found in silence and stillness
Choosing from what matters
We make decisions every day. Some are small. Others quietly shape the course of our lives.
In this reflection, I explore why decision-making isn’t just about having the right information, but about being anchored in what truly matters.
#Theweekthatwas @ 21/12/2025
If we're not anchored to a vision for our future, we will be blown around like a leaf in the wind
There’s no app for effort
A trophy arrived home this week and with it, an unexpected reminder.
In a world obsessed with outcomes, this reflection explores the quiet, often unseen role of effort. The kind that shapes character, builds resilience and compounds over time even when recognition doesn’t come.
Because the truth is simple: there’s no app for effort.
#Theweekthatwas @ 14/12/2025
Nobody is ready before they start; readiness comes from doing
On being human first
Earlier today, a thought crossed my mind - quietly, briefly, but long enough to unsettle me. “Should I hold back from speaking up… because it might affect my business?”
I didn’t like that the thought showed up. And I didn’t ignore it.
#Theweekthatwas @ 07/12/2025
You never get judgement from those ahead of you, only those behind you
What two young people taught me about holding back
Some lessons arrive in unexpected ways. This week, two young people taught me something I didn’t know I needed to learn about perfectionism, contribution and holding back.
#Theweekthatwas @ 30/11/2025
Personal experience carries more credibility than any theoretical construct
#Theweekthatwas @ 23/11/2025
To be successful, choosing the right company should be about inspiration, not comparison
Somewhere between resignation and anger
Three small moments this week revealed a truth I couldn’t ignore: comfort doesn’t just support us, it can also blind us. From a delayed flight to a coaching conversation, the pattern was unmistakable. This blog explores what privilege hides from us and how the “Hover” step of my Becoming Unapologetically You framework helps us wake up to what we’ve normalised.
#Theweekthatwas @ 16/11/2025
The people with the most insight of your business have the same email domain as you
Uncomfortable is where the growth happens
A simple line from a client conversation that’s been echoing all week: in my business, my learning and, well, life. This post explores why sitting with discomfort, instead of escaping it, might just be the fastest path to growth.
#Theweekthatwas @ 09/11/2025
Sometimes we have rules that we've created for ourselves which no longer serve us
The Case of the Pyjama day
When embarrassment leads the way, courage takes a backseat.
A simple moment with my son - and his pyjama day - reminded me how fear of judgement quietly shapes our choices. In this week’s reflection, I explore how holding discomfort and harnessing it for courage can help us show up more fully, even in our metaphorical pyjamas.
#Theweekthatwas @ 02/11/2025
Achieving attention may benefit the ego but provides very little value unless converted into something of benefit